Chaste Bob's Erotica

By Alexandra Stevens

OVERVIEW OF MALE OBEDIENCE TRAINING (MOBT)

Male Obedience Training or MOBT is an essential training regimen for the modern dominant female (femdom) to train her submissive male (malesub) psychologically and physiologically through the use of enforced penis control, chastity and orgasm denial. MOBT is a lifestyle for the established husband and wife, the young couple, the dominatrix and submissive, and even in some instances in a work setting between female superior and subordinate.

It is crucial that every woman establish her supremacy and control over her man.  Every man today needs to undergo MOBT at some stage of his life to teach him self-control and obedience, and to shape him to his fullest potential in respect of the female in his life.  Every female should exercise MOBT on her male to establish her control over him, to obtain the proper respect and obedience from him, and to achieve his maximum performance and sexual servitude toward her pleasure needs.

MOBT FOR CREATING THE MODERN OBEDIENT MALE

In order for a woman to truly control a man, she must control his penis erectile, arousal and ejaculatory systems.  This requires the female to control and regulate all male masturbation, penetration and ejaculation of her man, including restraint of the male penis in a locked chastity device (to restrict access to the cock) and forbidding male semen ejaculation for long, extended periods (the concept of orgasm denial) under her control.

MOBT allows the female to control male actions and make him obedient and attentive to her desires and commands.  Sexually, MOBT ensures the man demonstrates strong erectile performance and self-control for his female at all times. The MOBT male is able to achieve multiple erections upon touch and demand by his female trainer - he is ready for penetration if she wants and demands it. The MOBT male is focused on servicing and pleasuring his female - he is ready to effectively service the female genitals to bring ecstasy to his femdom for hours of pleasure and multiple orgasms for her. The MOBT male demonstrates his ability to withhold ejaculation for his femdom - he respects female authority and embraces obedience to the wishes of his female.

The modern male is undisciplined, whether young, middle-aged or mature.  He needs female control, whether he realizes or admits it.  Young men are virile, but lack self-control and they do masturbate excessively.   Middle-aged males are more settled, but they are also inattentive to their females and eventually become unfaithful.   Mature men may be more dependable, but they are often also impotent.  Each man in each stage of life needs the control and redirection that a successful MOBT program can provide to the penis and the man.

THE BENEFITS OF MOBT FOR A MAN

The long-term benefits and pleasure aspects of MOBT for a man cannot be overstated, but when introduced can cause great anxiety in most men.  MOBT means a complete loss of sexual control for a man under the command of his femdom.   MOBT means the end of traditional sex – masturbation, penetration and ejaculation until the femdom wants and demands it. It means a man will be denied orgasm and semen release for long periods. He will need to endure frustration and emotional changes for his woman.  Then, he will be rewarded by her with great pleasure as he performs for her.

The program includes aspects of domination, restraint, humiliation, discipline, discomfort, punishment and pain that will frighten the malesub at first.   However, once the modern male is introduced and indoctrinated into MOBT, he achieves great personal pleasure, pride and prowess that he has never known.  The MOBT male is kept in a state of perpetual arousal as his femdom trains and stimulates him.  He rides waves of pleasure and frustration as his femdom teases him and prevents him from reaching climax.  He essentially becomes multi-orgasmic, like a woman, by practicing sexual continence – the process of penis excitement without semen cum.  He builds further and further desire by not being allowed to release and ejaculate.  Over time, the male will not want to return to a normal lifestyle nor want traditional sex, as he once knew it.  He will not want to be in control.  He will embrace the concept of denial for his femdom and will focus on her pleasure.

MOBT will train your male in self-control, respect, and discipline. He will erect his penis daily for you, his femdom, through denial and semen buildup.   His fidelity to you will be ensured as you control his sexual functions and build his endurance and strength.

MOBT SEMEN LOADING AND TRAINING PERIODS FOR MALE CONTROL

MOBT achieves a hard cock, submission and obedience in a man through the “loading principle” – the denial of orgasm to a man and the buildup of semen over time.  For a man, this promotes perpetual excitement, penis arousal and male compliance. 

The “base” period for a man is 1-3 days without cumming where he becomes hard and experiences new feelings and emotions through ejaculatory denial.  During this time, the male penis should be locked in a male chastity device without release or stimulation.

The “training” period occurs between 4-7 days of no cumming for a man, when he must learn to overcome strong feelings to ejaculate.  During this period, the male penis is released from chastity to undergo tease-and-denial and erection management training by his femdom designed to teach him sustained erections and ejaculation control.  Training runs from 15 minutes to 2 hours, after which the penis is locked back in the chastity device.

The “maximum” load period occurs between the 8th and 12th day of no cum, when the male becomes compliant and fully-obedient to the instructions of his female trainer.   Longer and more intense periods of excitement (including controlled penetrations) can be permitted the malesub here, as he now will have achieved the desire to not cum and to demonstrate his self-control for his femdom.  

The “fully-loaded” period occurs after day 12 of denial when the male sacs are filled with unreleased semen.  The male can be kept in stasis after this point by employing prostate massage and milking, strap-on penetration, and other regulatory techniques designed to relieve the malesub of internal pressure and desire for ejaculation.

The “reward-release” period occurs after 15 days of denial, at which time the malesub may be ejaculated by the femdom, or agreement can be reached to extend the malesub’s period of orgasm denial. It is recommended to always push male limits as far as possible in terms of denial period.

The “extended-training” period ranges from 30 days to 2 months of denial during which time the malesub experiences a range of  wide emotional changes, joys and fantasies at the hand of his femdom – being deprived orgasm for extended periods.

The “castration” period occurs generally between 2-3 months, when extended denial and semen buildup causes the malesub to experience dripping of semen and nocturnal secretions from a full calendar quarter of semen buildup and orgasm denial.

MOBT ORGASM DENIAL PERIODS AND AGE TRAINING OBJECTIVES

Orgasm denial periods and MOBT training objectives will change depending on the age of the man and his state in life.  Recommended guidelines for Denial Periods are as follows:

While the young male’s virility and erection strength can be used to please a woman for stud use and ongoing penetration, he should be taught to cum no more than once every 3 days and ideally only twice a month.

A middle-aged male should be focused on female oral servicing, allowed to cum no more than once a week and ideally once a month.  

The mature male must be denied release for long periods so that he can demonstrate the ability to achieve and sustain erection for his femdom.   Males 50+ should only be permitted release by the femdom twice a month at maximum, and ideally only once or twice a quarter.  

The serious MOBT malesub in serious MOBT training is permitted 5 or less cums per year, usually only once per quarter.  The ultimate achievement under MOBT is when a man can be trained to sustain orgasm denial for one entire year.  

Whatever denial period the femdom and malesub agree, must be followed by the male with complete obedience.  Any infractions or accidents, where a male prematurely ejaculates without femdom permission, must be dealt with swift and severe corporal punishment.

MOBT PROGRAM GOALS FOR MALE OBEDIENCE AND PERFORMANCE

MOBT seeks to instill three simple goals for the modern submissive male.   In lieu of male orgasm (“cum”), the malesub should now be focused and evaluated on by his ability to achieve for his femdom:

• Erection: achieving and sustaining a strong erect penis in lieu of “cum”
• Continence: focusing on extended male excitement and denial in lieu of “cum”
• Servicing: pleasing his femdom in lieu of his own pleasure and “cum”

THE MOBT PROGRAM 10 ESSENTIAL ELEMENTS FOR MALE OBEDIENCE

MOBT involves ten elements for a successful personal relationship between dominant female and submissive male.  These elements ensure successful achievement of control for the female, and obedience, respect, performance and submission by the male in the MOBT relationship:

1. Female Supremacy: The malesub agrees to be submissive and subordinate to his femdom; to respect her wishes; to follow her orders and be obedient to her. 
2. Penis Control: The malesub agrees to turn over complete control of his penis to the femdom; she alone is responsible for any stimulation, penetration and ejaculation he is permitted.
3. Enforced Chastity: The malesub agrees to have his penis secured in a locked chastity device for extended periods; the femdom maintains the key and controls all access to his penis, which is locked except when being trained by her.
4. Orgasm Denial: The malesub agrees to being denied orgasm for extended periods of time to ensure maximum submission, obedience and erectile performance though semen buildup.
5. Erection Management: The malesub agrees to undergo significant daily tease and denial training intended to develop sustained erections and teach self-control through sexual continence, the denying of ejaculatory release. 
6. Oral Servicing: The malesub agrees to forgo his personal orgasms to focus instead on pleasuring his femdom through oral servicing; the malesub is trained to provide multiple orgasms to his femdom for every single release he is permitted.
7. Strap-On Training: The malesub agrees to power exchange and role reversal with his femdom, receiving regular strap-on penetration designed to breakdown male aggression and to overcome male disobedience tendencies.
8. Anal Discipline: The malesub agrees to receiving regular anal training by his femdom (including prostate massage, enemas/suppositories, dildos, plugs) to develop male submission to female control through the use of discomfort techniques.
9. Emasculation: The malesub agrees to undergo feminization techniques (such as genital hair removal and pantying) designed to remove male ego and teach humility via humiliation. 
10. Discipline and Punishment: Finally, the malesub agrees to submit to regular, ongoing discipline to maintain self-control and obedience, as well as corporal punishment (whipping, strapping, caning, other) for any infractions.

TRAINING REGIMEN FOR YOUR MAN 

It is important that the dominant female establish an ongoing training ritual for her malesub.  Ideally, training should be performed daily or multiple times daily, but not less than 3x per week. 

Training the male submissive should involve the daily use of tease & denial, erection management, corporal and anal discipline, oral servicing and use of the strap-on on your man.  It is important that your submissive male demonstrate strong, sustained erections for you, while you monitor his performance being denied orgasms over extended periods. 

Binding your male and removing his undergarment and cock cage for stimulation training are highly erotic experiences for the male.  The male needs 15 minutes to 1 hour of penis training daily - testing his erection and self-control to prevent ejaculation.   Evaluate the length, hardness and duration of his penis erection in determining his obedience to you.  I recommend a male performance report-card for your male to document his daily performance, as well as periodic reviews, that determine his reward or punishment for performance.  This is hard for the male ego at first, but this will quickly go away and will assist your control over your man, once he knows you are serious.

The application of male discipline is an essential part of your man's daily training.  Strapping him after stroking him teaches him the concept of reward and punishment, and reinforces your control over him.  Daily endurance training for him and cunnilingus for your benefit are essential.   Administering a retention enema to your malesub, while he orally services your clit, trains your male in obedience and female pleasuring.

Ending a training session with the strap-on brings the female in control a sense of power, satisfaction and closure.  Your man should submit to penetration by you to complete his daily training.